David Archuleta

We're supposed to focus on the good things.

Right.

Yeah.

But you know what I was going to say?

I think where Catholicism is very similar to like with like Latter-day Saints is the fact that shame is such a big part of life.

the culture.

And so I think that's, what's really interesting also about like secret lives and Mormon wives is you see how shame and confession is such a part of the culture, which I think is really sweet.

It's beautiful because I think it's something that a lot of other people don't

And don't feel like, Oh, that's not really a part of their lives and their mentality and their culture and community where you feel a need.

I feel like Mormons do a lot of times overshare.

And I think you see that with the mom talk, like they're sharing way more than they probably should be.

But, and, and like in a way that it's like, I realized what I'm doing is wrong and I messed up and stuff, but it's like really beautiful.

The honesty behind that.

So yeah,

I think, you know, I think people always appreciated that about me too.

And I just like, they're like, wow, you're so honest and like so vulnerable.

I'm like, but I was like, well, the culture I come from, like that's where, that's how we are.

And it's what's interesting though, is the more power and influence you have, the less, I feel like the less...

transparency there is.

So it's like the followers, a lot of them are expected to be transparent and honest, but there are people who know how to play the system and cheat it.