David Bayer
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And I see feedback from folks who have been in our work that it's this distinction.
It's the distinction that beliefs are decisions.
So when we were growing up, we came to the conclusion when our little buddy didn't show up at the drinking fountain that we can't trust people.
but it was a decision.
And as a result of that unconscious decision, we've been living in a hallucination ever since.
We've only been paying attention to anything that supports that decision, and we've been ignoring everything else.
And if that's true, then at any point in time, I should be able to identify a limiting belief and make a new decision.
And so we have this wonderful process in the book called the decision matrix that helps people identify the limiting belief, make a new decision, which is always the opposite of the limiting belief,
And to ask a really simple question, which is what evidence do I have for the fact that this new decision is true?
And what you'll do is you'll actually source those memories that you've been filtering out.
And as you do that, you build evidence for the new belief.
And most often, by the time you're done with that little process and you look back at the limiting belief, it doesn't even make sense anymore.
But the idea that beliefs are decisions, I think, demystifies the concept of beliefs.
Because we can get into trauma and this and that and all these things.
But ultimately, they were unconscious decisions.
And as an adult, you have an ability to respond or responsibility when you find a limiting belief.
And that is to make a new empowered decision.
The decision matrix.
Oh, man.
I've heard you ask this question on so many episodes.
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