David Deida

But if the game is kind of put on you, you might even be more skilled because you're less wound up in your own issues.

Yeah, that's fun.

If they feel they need to man up and go through it, they should.

I mean, that's a true phase.

So if somebody really feels that, I would recommend that they man up and go through it.

To others, I would say, it's not so much like when you reach the top, like you arrive and then you see it's empty.

Right now, in this moment, whoever is listening, I mean, this very moment,

feel what's happening, notice what's happening.

There's something happening.

You're hearing my voice and your voice.

There's a visual perception they're having, but none of that is changing them.

They're the same one listening that they were yesterday or 10 years ago or 10 years from now.

And so in this very moment,

They can relax or notice that one.

And instantly in that noticing, all the stuff they're doing and thinking becomes empty.

Not in a negative way.

It's just stuff that happens, like watching a river, watching the clouds.

It's still happening, but it's flowing through you.

There's...

So there's no need to feel like when I achieve or when I have arrived.