David Deida

Right now, you're in that condition.

But you may also have motivation.

So right now, everyone is in the condition of...

I don't think, if somebody wants to self-improve, they should, as we said earlier.

I mean, that's what makes the world go round.

So people who are moved to self-improve or improve the world, which tend to go hand in hand, they should.

There's no reason not to.

I don't see it as a block to this.

I think sooner or later, most men come to a point where

of whether, however active they are, however improved they are or not, of feeling its emptiness.

Again, in this moment, most men would be able to feel that spacious emptiness, that awareness.

It's aware.

There's an is-ness.

It's hard to put words on this, obviously, but a lot of men have experienced it.

What changes around sex?

Well, a third of the book is about sex, of the book The Man of Zero, because a lot could change, because a lot of our sex is based on our past, our mammalian past, as I said, our psychological past, the way our parents treated us, our first sexual relationships.

as we rest at zero more and more, more stably, more frequently, those no longer motivate you.

So what men often feel as they approach this phase of the man of zero is less actual desire for sex, but more sexual fantasies

coming out of those depths that I described earlier, like that we stuffed down.

So they might be sitting there and they may have all kinds of weird sexual fantasies and thoughts, but when it comes to actually having sex and having a relationship,