David Deida

And so it's important to learn to embrace that polarity, but it's still a polarity.

And ultimately, the polarity is being the fullness of your depth, of your awareness, and attracting to you a woman who's in her fullness of devotion.

That is, her heart is...

open and full of love that she also wants to share, but she's not driven by a sense of lack.

So she loves you, but doesn't need you and vice versa.

And that's a very strong polarity.

Your depth of stillness is in polarity with her radiance, her power.

I see it even coming out as more and more women, I'm sure you know this,

You know, there are more girls who graduate high school than boys.

There are more women in law school and medical school than men.

I think it's going to keep going in that direction.

I think that over time, women will be

much and already are will be more there'll be more women leaders than men there'll be more successful women than men the pendulum will swing and then men will need to learn how to rest as this man of zero in depth because then they still have polarity it's very valuable when a woman is very strong and powerful kind of comes home from work if we want to use that metaphor like she comes home from

a day of being in the world, and there you are, completely present, rooted in the deepest sense of being, absolutely attentive to her without being singing because your awareness is free.

She feels that is the greatest gift on earth.

So she moves from being attracted to a man who, whatever, makes a lot of money and is socially charismatic,

to a man whose polarity matches her at the level of being and doing or emptiness and fullness.

Yes, because awareness is where everything happens.

You wouldn't be aware of something unless it happened in awareness.

And you're that awareness.