David Deida
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
So you are the ultimate frame, if you will.
And this could even apply sexually.
So let's say you're laying in bed with a lover.
In the past, you might initiate sex and...
You might be kissing and touching and foreplay and building up tension, maybe spanking, lovingly being together in all kinds of playful ways.
But for a man of zero, he might be laying there feeling like, I don't want to do anything.
I don't want to move.
I love her.
I love being here with her.
I don't want to do anything, though.
And I would say to that man, okay, don't do anything.
You just lay there in bed, hold her in your arms, but completely feel her.
Feel her body.
Notice the tensions moving through her body.
Feel her emotions.
Feel the ongoing yearning in her heart.
Just feel.
And in the book, I give details, but you learn how to feel into her effortlessly, just in a completely relaxed way.
And then she feels your presence.
She feels you feeling her.