David Deida

She feels you knowing her.

And that is incredibly valuable, even sexually.

So now you're just laying there holding her with her, but she feels you deeply knowing her, probably deeper than if you were pumping her, you know?

So...

She's feeling this deep sense of you being inside of her.

You're still penetrating her, but you're penetrating her with your love, with your stealing awareness.

And so sexually, the less you do, the more she feels fucked by you.

Well, that's a, as you know, a lot of my work in the past has been on sexuality and spirituality.

Um, so we can spend, you know, months unpacking this, but Hey, it's your first one.

It's fantastic because of the way evolution works.

I'm sure you know this, uh,

For male bodies, all they need to do is ejaculate in order to create the next generation.

Whereas women need to raise, you know, be pregnant, eat enough while they're pregnant, survive pregnancy, raise the child nursing.

There's a big difference, if you will, in potential cost, evolutionarily speaking.

So men are built to be aroused sexually.

So sexual arousal

you know, men are almost always able to be sexually, you know, they're fantasizing about sex a lot.

Sexual arousal is easy.

So it's easy for them to talk about that part, sex.

It's easy for them to say what they like sexually.