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David Oyelowo

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406 total appearances

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Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And the effects of it, I mean, after 13 days, studies have shown you're never the same again.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

Because it's 23 hours a day in a 9x6 cell with fluorescent lights on all the time.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And what that does to the mind, the psyche, the soul, it's torture.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

all the time other than to torture you there's no rehabilitative effect to having lights on all the time it is the opposite of rehabilitation you know and that's the point it is it is punitive just it is purely punitive and so it's the height of punishment anything and everything to make your life uncomfortable is what solitary confinement

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And you say it perfectly there.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

It is the opposite of rehabilitation, which supposedly is what we're supposed to be doing with prisons.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

But what people don't know is that 80,000 people, men, women, and children are in solitary confinement today in America.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And so in order to tell this story in a way that wasn't just...

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

dark and challenging and traumatic, we chose to see what life was like for this man post the incarceration and how he goes on a journey to trying to reconnect with his family while dealing with this trauma.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

So it's a psychological thriller, but you know, it's, it's re that's wrapped around a love story.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

You know, this guy trying to get back to his wife, trying to get back to his son.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

Well, so perfectly put there, Conan, because it's also about the things we take for granted and how desperately as human beings we need connection.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

Like human beings are designed for connection.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And the ultimate way you dehumanize someone is to extricate them from human connection.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

I mean, we all, to a certain extent, felt that during the pandemic.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

And that was one of the most debilitating things is this feeling of

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

a lack of connection to other people.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

But, you know, that's exactly it.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

Him trying to reconnect, having been denied connection for so long with the very people that essentially their existence is what kept him going.

Conan O’Brien Needs A Friend
David Oyelowo Returns

So he wants nothing more than to reconnect with his wife.