Dax Shepard

It has more to do how we remember our childhood.

Not so much the memories themselves, but how we narrate our childhood.

There's the adult attachment interview.

It gets scored by psychologists.

And that can predict to some degree the attachment style of the child.

So how well, if you're very structured in your narration of your past, then the child will be more secure in the strange situation test.

Yes.

Yeah, there's better chances.

Again, nothing in this is like one-to-one ever.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

But it does predict to some degree the child attachment style.

And then if you avoid it, then if you're like, oh, my God, I had the most amazing childhood.

But then actually when you talk about the memories, there's sort of like a discrepancy.

Yeah, yeah.

Then you have the child that's more avoidant and the anxious jump around from one topic to another.

But I still don't really know what to make of it.

Yeah, right.

Lo and behold, adults also have these attachment styles, anxious, avoidant, and secure.

Only we don't play with toys like that anymore, but it has to do with our attitudes towards closeness and intimacy on the one hand.

And then on the other hand, how sensitive of a radar do we have