Dee Salmin

And it's both sides now.

And she's just like the one tear, like I was crying while writing it because I was watching it at the same time.

And I just, it just hits.

It hits every time.

Yeah.

Her husband, Alan Rickman, was having a full-on affair with Helen and Bonacarta.

I can't believe it.

Harry Potter will never be the same to me for multiple reasons, actually.

I know, I know.

Especially that now.

When I was researching it and I saw that she'd done a few interviews on that particular scene because it clearly is a scene that just hits so hard for so many people, especially women.

She was like, yeah, because I was actually going through a very, very similar thing with my own marriage.

Yeah.

Which I think adds to the point that I was trying to make, which is that so many women end up in relationships and marriages like that and...

you know it's something that we've for a lot of us we've grown up watching maybe with our own parents or with people we know and just being like that's my biggest phobia like I do not want to end up in a relationship where I am so excited about the idea of just even getting a necklace for my husband no I know it was and they're not even and they're getting a scarf I know I

It's like so counterintuitive.

I know.

It's like the messages we've constantly brought up consuming right has been around, you know, to be whole is to find your other half and your life doesn't really begin until you find the one and your soulmate.

And I think that's been even more perpetuated for women.

And this idea that like your role in society, especially in our Western one is to, you know,