Dee Salmin

you're not taking time and being conscious of who you're picking right like I've seen friends like the slightest attention that they get from a guy that's interested that hasn't ghosted them or hasn't you know breadcrumbed them or ended up in a situation whatever they're like instantly in a relationship and it happens so quickly and I go but you haven't even like have you even asked them about like why they love women or like what they're like you don't know anything about this person yeah well I call it um future tripping

Yes, I love that.

And we do it.

We do it as friends, right?

Like, I have done that casually.

countless times to my friends and they've done it to me where you'll go out to brunch or something and they'll be like oh my god I had this amazing night with this guy and you'll be like oh tell me about the blah blah blah and then you know they might be like oh but you know he hasn't really replied to me and we slept together and it's been a week but like you know he's probably busy and you know he's got a lot on and he said he was like you know going to state and and

I'll sit there and be like, yeah, babe, no, totally.

That completely makes sense.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Or like he's probably just, you know, playing it cool or like threatened by your success and like intimidated.

And so, you know, we do this to each other.

Yes.

Exactly.

And, like, which stem from Sex and the City, where Miranda discovers that for the first time and she, like, goes up to women everywhere being like, here's, babe, let me save you.

He's just not into you.

And they're like...

you bitch.

Like we don't want to hear it.

We don't want to hear it.