Dee Salmin

And we lie to ourselves.

And trust me, like I've done that for most of my life.

Yeah.

But I think there's something actually really refreshing and an accountability that we probably have as women to ourselves and to other women to be a bit more honest, you know?

Yeah.

But this is the thing, if you don't even take the time to do that, how are you going to fix, like, this is where I was at, was I had this constant pattern of chasing after unavailable guys or guys that treated me like shit or, you know, were avoidant.

And because I just was in this cycle, I never at once just stopped to think and try and unpack that and realise like, hey, maybe like there's a dynamic at play here that

I'm a part of the problem.

And that's what COVID was, right?

It was like going to therapy and journaling and unpacking and learning so much about my parents' relationship and what I'd learned from them.

Yeah.

Hello.

Yes.

So TikTok taught me this.

Now you... As a professional, am I right?

And normally they're like, yeah.

They're like, unfortunately, yeah.

I did so many quizzes.

I was like... Oh, yeah, I know.

I've done so many, especially working at The Hookup.