Dee Salmon

You've overthought it?

When they're just woken up, about to go in the shower.

I don't know.

It's never the romantic way that you thought it would be.

Just blurting it out in the shops or blurting it out on the phone or whatever it is.

I feel like that's such a sign of...

Okay, I want to circle back to people who say it under three months.

Because like I said, do you actually really know someone that quickly?

Yeah.

I don't know.

But Lily sent us a voice memo saying that it doesn't really matter...

How quickly said?

It's whether or not you actually mean it.

I fully agree.

I'm like actions speak so much louder than words.

Yeah.

And this is such a telltale sign, not to get serious, of like love bombing.

Because like I know that one of my really good friends had a guy say I love you after two weeks.

And she got swept up in the romance of it all and swept up in the passion and the messaging all the time and the constantly him wanting to see her and buy presents and blah, blah, blah.

And then turns out he was just a full fuck boy, ghosted her eventually, like just obviously didn't mean any of it, but just like knew that that's how he would get her.