Demaris

But it was an ego boost.

Like, oh, I have a great relationship with her.

She was French and black.

So this this goes into the conversation that we have a lot about what reality versus perception is.

Right.

So technically, he's not wrong.

He's treating her like a friend with the added benefits.

But when you're in a situation like that or thinking of a situation like that, you have to look at how other people handle, how the majority handles the same situation as you.

The majority of men, not all, but the majority of men do not treat women that they are not in a relationship with, with dignity, respect, or like they want to spend extra time with each other.

What I'm telling you is men are not nice to women that they are not in relationships with a lot and they don't often take women that they're not in relationships with all these places that he names.

It is not often that women you are just fucking are meeting your family and hanging out and going all these places with you and seeing you regularly.

That is not a... The average man does not handle things like that.

Exactly.

Y'all don't want to be held?

No, listen, you guys are wrong.

You're not wrong.

And you're decent people and people can appreciate that.

But what you have to understand is that sometimes you just have to do that with the right person because the wrong person will attach feelings to that.

But I also think that you can do that and still establish boundaries throughout that.

But a relationship developed or like, you know, feelings developed in this friends with benefits thing.