Demaris
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We're spending time together.
We're doing all these activities together.
So in my younger years, I have been victim to that.
Maybe when I was like, maybe 19, 20.
Yeah, I feel like every girl's had that happen.
It shouldn't be considered that.
I agree with you, but you can't sit up here and say, well, I don't think of it like this, so the rest of the world shouldn't.
If you were clear about that eight months ago, it doesn't mean that it's clear now.
OK, now listen, her feelings are changing and she thinks that it's possible that yours have to be.
Especially if you don't make, and this is where I want to talk about their conversation.
He's doing all this shit and I'm getting the feeling that he's only doing it with her.
So you're only fucking her.
You're only doing all these activities and shit with her.
You really enjoy her company.
Like, so when she says this is all relationship shit, what you need to come out and make it clear and say, no, the difference between what we're doing in a relationship is the commitment to you.
Not the commitment to only that I'm only fucking you right now.
The commitment to...
hey, I have to consider you when I make life choices and I am actively making time for you because this is what I have to do.
I am committed to this relationship.