Deontay Kyle

Instead, I keep ending up desired but not chosen.

And I know part of this is my boundaries, but damn, it still hurts.

I'm in therapy, I'm in the gym, I'm trying to grow, but I'm tired of feeling like I'm too old for these situations and somehow I'm always in them.

My question is, how do you break the cycle of situationships

when you genuinely want love without shutting your heart down or becoming bitter.

Love y'all.

Um, you have to stop leading with your sexual desire.

Yeah.

Discipline.

Yeah.

I think that everybody wants to be with somebody they want to fuck.

Yeah.

So of course a physical attraction is necessary.

Some sort of sexual chemistry is necessary, but are you getting to know anything about them before you giving them the cat?

Because the thing is, is like,

If you don't know my middle name, you don't know my mama name, you don't know who I am, where I'm from, nothing.

It's just been like a lot of surface level sweet talks that end up with us having sex.

Then, shit, I mean, why would I?

I'm not going to say why would I invest more, but for a 25-year-old, a young man?

Yeah.