Deontay Kyle

If their intention is purely sexual, once they get the sex, that's it.

That's it.

You know what I mean?

They out.

So it's also a thing about, you know, the boundary, the bigger boundary is, are you willing to wait?

You know what I mean?

If you're not willing to wait, and for them to put forth effort, if I don't have to put forth any effort to get what I want, then...

What's the point of putting forth the effort?

And then also too, you could be a very studious and you should be learning from these past situationships about how men interact with you when they only want to fuck you.

Because then moving forward, you'll know like, if you ain't on that sexual timing with them and they completely fall back or they only hit you up every now and then,

then you know that that's their intention, and you also know that that's not what you want.

So if you know that that's not what you want, then you have to stop justifying it and going for it.

Like, you can't keep just like, oh, I'm horny, so I'm going to fuck this dude, but then I also kind of want him to want me for more than that.

Well, you kind of don't want them for more than that.

You know?

So I think the thing is, is like, maybe we take a few months.

Maybe it's okay to, you know, it sounds like you've been...

constantly from one dude to the next since 17.

Or at least since you broke up with dudes.

But even the dude you was dealing with for five years, he was only his girlfriend for two years.