Devorah Heitner
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first heard Oct 2018
last heard 17 Oct
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sitting on them to get them to do what you want isn't the thing that will keep them from playing Fortnite all night in college, right?
They actually need to learn self-regulation because there's not gonna be someone guiding them forever.
And so we may have more uh a bigger lift sometimes with some of our kids teaching them teaching them how to self regulate around these issues.
But truly all the parents I meet are finding that tech presents some challenges to their family or their kids.
Sure, I mean relationships can be a challenge for all of us and for all kids growing up today and for adults who manage a lot of our relationships.
Digitally, just figuring out, you know, what are the differences in disclosure versus discretion and social media versus a face-to-face conversation?
Uh what what is the expectation of frequency of contact in a digital relationship?
You know, if someone texts me, what's my obligation to text them back right away?
Is it different with email?
Is it different in different genres of of social media?
You know, is Snapchat different than Facebook?
All of these things have a million unspoken rules and I've written a little bit about the kind of rules that kids come up with in their own communities.
Now, if you have a kid who has a hard time figuring out the unspoken social rules in verbal communication, they may do better with digital communication because it it might there might be a way to be more explicit or it may be just as challenging.
So we know we I think we all know kids who are
not great at face to face communication, but maybe they're really great at video games.
How can we as parents
use a video game maybe to help our kids build some face to face social skills, whether it's inviting friends over to play the game and insisting that they also unplug for some of the time or
Are there other ways that we can?
use their interests and their skills to bridge into areas of strength.
Right.
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