Devorah Heitner
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2,393 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2018
last heard 17 Oct
Devorah Heitner’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Like it could be someone highly qualified, like our buddy Ned or a bunch of other smart people on there.
Like there's a lot of great authors on TikTok giving really good advice that's like research-based and thoughtful.
And there's a lot of people who are like, I've got a phone, I'm turning it off.
I'm pointing it toward my face and I'm gonna tell you that it's okay to hit your kid.
Or I'm gonna tell you that it's okay to sometimes hit someone in a romantic relationship or like other terrible, damaging, problematic advice that we would never want our children to hear.
We would never want to listen to ourselves.
And so the wonderful and terrible thing about the internet is it's so democratizing.
It's like everyone has a platform.
Within those apps, it's pretty hard.
I mean, there are ways to prevent kids from downloading apps depending on what kind of phone you have and what kind of app store.
Like and there are ways, you know, if you have an Apple, you can use screen time to some degree to like make sure that they have approval before they use the app store.
But I even think those only go up to thirteen.
Like a lot of
the sort of assumptions that are built into tech.
are not really about keeping kids safe or what's developmentally appropriate, but about like who is uh who are you allowed to track for advertising.
So the idea of thirteen and up, it's not like, oh, thirteen is exactly when I want my kid to access hardcore porn or exactly when I want them to be able to like buy weapons on the internet or something.
But thirteen is when
the Apple folks think that you don't need to control the app store for your kid because that's when they're allowed to use more apps like Instagram, for example, or TikTok because they're being COPA compliant, which is just about advertising.
But again, that's not to say that your specific kid should be on TikTok at 13.
And then again within TikTok, within Reddit, within Discord, there's huge variance on what's going on.
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