Devorah Roloff

empowering about that because you are able to to speak out about it and be like wow like I'm stronger than I thought that I'm able to go back through these details because it isn't always an easy thing to do yeah it's not it's not always easy and I think it's something that it's easier to talk to a stranger about

Absolutely.

Because there's not as much judgment there.

It's like they're very unbiased.

Like, just tell me your story kind of thing.

Yeah.

Right.

And like I said, it really is something that – I mean, it's crazy, but like it happens every day.

You know what I mean?

And I think that there are so many different –

emotions or lack of emotions that people and maybe the other potential too is somebody might make that decision not feel anything and then five years down the road it hits them you know like you never know how you're going to react to something when it's going to come back up and i think that it's okay to you can regret things but still not blame yourself right because

I mean, we have to be gentle with ourselves, you know, at the end of the day where we have to make decisions sometimes in that moment.

And it's very much based on where we are in life, the people around us, the support we have, don't have.

And even though sometimes it's decisions that we make.

Mm-hmm.

there's a lot more that goes into it, you know, and it's not, it's just not fair, but it look where you are now, you know, and it does teach you things and it allows you to spread awareness and speak out about it.

And yeah, honestly, you're an incredible storyteller.

Oh, thank you.

Of course.

Like it's very – it's so amazing to me when people come and they're like, I've never really shared my story before.