Devorah Roloff

Which once again, I know you'll get to, but even with like, you know, advocating for like, you know, children to be able to have a daddy-daughter dances and things like that, it's difficult because, you know, as a big picture view of things, it's like not a good idea, this, that, and the others.

There's so many reasons why it should be now.

Absolutely.

But then you don't think about the trauma it causes to a child.

And people don't realize those things stick with you.

Anytime a parent...

That makes a false promise.

Anytime a parent doesn't show up, it's like we could forget our whole childhood years of it.

But those little key things, they stick with you.

You remember them.

And they do set the tone for how you are as a person, I think.

And those little things can just help.

It's more so for the child than for the parent.

absolutely oh my gosh you know what i mean it's just like do it for the well-being and the future of that child do it so that child doesn't feel like an outcast like we don't need any more of that we don't need a child to feel like they are different or they should be embarrassed or like anything like and i just feel like this is the last thing i'll say about it but i i just feel like there's not enough like

Knowledge and education on the not norm, if that makes sense.

Like when kids have something go on, even if it's like they just like lost their parent, you know, because that's another situation where that's so – it's so not an embarrassing thing.

But as a child, if –

You have like a field trip and parents come and your parents are the only ones that aren't there because they're dead.

Yeah.

It's like you feel uncomfortable.