Devorah Roloff
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So for you to feel โ you know, I think it's definitely okay for us to reflect on our actions and be like, you know, I could have been nicer in that situation.
But the reality is in that moment, that's how you felt.
And while, yes, maybe you could have been more nice to him and more open โ
That's not to say you'd actually like feel those ways.
You could feel just as guilty for faking it.
It's like, it's not really like, if that's how you felt then you can't regret it because that's how you felt in that moment.
It's not like you, I think you just were wearing your feelings on your sleeve.
You were angry, you were bitter.
You have the right to feel that way.
I just think we're very hard on ourselves.
Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy, but I don't think you, you don't deserve to hold any more guilt.
There's not, I guess, what you said, it's just... It's sad, and it sucks, and like I said, it's very unfortunate that his life went the path it did.
It sucks, but everyone's actions, they have consequences, right?