Devorah Roloff

Like we want our parents there.

Yes.

You know, and I think that a lot of times, especially when you are a loving, good person, you fight for that for a while.

Then you get fed up of fighting for it for a while.

And the thing is, too, is you got to a point in your life where you no longer were just a daughter.

You became a mother.

So your priorities changed.

Your things shifted.

You had a different perspective on life.

And a different understanding of how you now needed to show up.

And that could also could have caused some bitterness in how you reacted.

Because you're like – you guys are two different people.

Even though that's your dad, you're two different people.

So it's like in your mind you're probably like, I can't imagine treating my child this way.

So the fact that you could do that, it gives you an anger inside.

And it's okay to feel that too, you know.

But I do think eventually you heal from that as well even if it's –

you know, after the person's already gone, you know, but that's something that I think it's all within yourself.

I don't think, I don't believe that we can ever get healing from a person.

I think we get healing from within ourselves.