Devorah Roloff

Well, yeah, because he was your example of a man.

Yeah.

So your standards naturally aren't going to be that high when you're not shown...

ever a loving man ever yeah like who else is there to really teach you that if you think about it

Exactly.

The only other blueprint you really have is if you're watching love movies and even those can be toxic.

So it's like, what do you really have?

Right.

You know, and it's, it's tough and it's, it definitely, like you said, they can, daddy issues can look so different and it can show up in so many different ways.

It could even be, it could even, I think, go beyond just men, but it could lead to anxiety.

It could lead to, you know, abandonment issues and everything in between.

Whether it comes with, that could be in friendships, that could be in anything.

Yeah.

And that is 100% true.

Yeah.

But how sad is it that as human beings, we feel that we need another human being to validate that?

Isn't it so sad?

It's so sad.

Because we should never give anyone that power.

No.