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Dhru Purohit

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
22723 total appearances

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Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

We tend to think it's men, but it's actually women.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

And this is why novelty is so important, especially for women.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

And you have to have that sense of entitlement and be free from shame if you're going to be able to feel like, I want to be able to bring forth my fantasies.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

I want to be able to tell my partner exactly

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

what I want, how I want to be touched.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

I always tell couples, sit down, have a conversation about the best sex you've ever had.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Talk about what was that really incredible sex you've had, what happened, what was the emotional landscape like in terms of how you felt coming into it.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Was it on vacation when you were away from your normal, natural day-to-day lives?

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Was it when you had gone out to dinner and felt like they had listened to you about a dream that you had that you'd been afraid to tell them about?

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Was it maybe when they just recognized that day that you were exhausted and worked extra hard to lean in and take care of all of these things that can make women so exhausted that we have to manage so many times in our lives?

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Find that, right?

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Focus on that.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

That should be your building point.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

That should be your launching point where curiosity then takes that incredible sex and builds on it to make it even more incredible and satisfying.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Very important detail.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Within that relationship.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Very important detail.

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

Now, in my book and in general, I do also have a lot of advice for people who are single and navigating sex in new relationships or casual sex or friends with benefits, right?

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

I'm different than a lot of other educators and, you know,

Dhru Purohit Show
7 Wildly Underrated Benefits of Sex and Pleasure: From Cognitive Health to Confidence with Dr. Nicole McNichols

people talking about this subject who are out there who are suggesting that the only type of satisfying sex is that which can happen in the context of a long-term relationship.