Dillon Latham
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And then I have, you know, I have a fucked up childhood.
So when I shed these tears, yeah, it's funny and I'm doing it to get attention, but it's coming from a place of being brutally fucked by this world.
Yeah, so guys are struggling with loneliness, and I hate to say this, but like I said, if you look at life as a chessboard, the best move to make isn't to directly fix the problem of loneliness.
The thing that must be done is you need to be valuable.
A valuable person will attract women and men, not in a fucking gay way, but they will attract men as friends.
So the...
I think the number one problem of men or anyone being lonely is their inability to diagnose problems.
What that means is they look at, hey, I'm lonely, and they think, hey, let me go talk to people, which yes, that's a fix.
But if you want to have high quality friends, high quality women, you need to get status, money, power, and improve your looks.
then instead of only fixing the loneliness problem, you're fixing every problem.
And the people attracted to you will have similar values of wanting to improve those things, which makes you more powerful, gain more status and helps you in every regard.
So I'll make this simple to fix the loneliness problem.
You need looks, money, power, and status.
You will attract whatever you want if you have those things.
I mean, I know Androgenica is no longer in the U.S., so I would say, yeah, no, I'm fucking lonely as shit.
I have no one.
I have some people, but everyone is trying to use me.
Everyone is leeching off of me.
My girlfriend is one of the only people in this world at the moment that I can sit there and not feel like she's leeching off of me.
So, I mean, realistically, yeah, I'm fucking lonely as shit, but I'm willing to be lonely for the sake of helping others and myself.