Dilly Carter

So as you just called him Patrick.

I love that.

Shall we have a look at your first box?

I am so excited to see what's in this because I just have no idea what's in these boxes.

Okay, so I'm opening the first box.

It's a small box.

Okay.

It is literally just a white t-shirt.

40 plain white T-shirts.

because I always need to buy my t-shirts Is that something that has become a real problem in your everyday getting ready?

You've been really open and spoken about your diagnosis with ADHD and autism.

How did it feel being diagnosed as an adult?

And are there certain fabrics or things that you touch that instantly take you back to a time before you were diagnosed with ADHD and autism?

Yeah.

And so three of your children have also been diagnosed with autism.

Yeah.

So do you find that organisation has played a huge role in your lives now for you and for your children in terms of how they manage their stuff, how they deal with their toys, how their rooms are organised, how the house is organised?

That is the most important thing about life is teaching our children independence because it's great, isn't it?

To have this role as a mother and be able to fold all your child's T-shirts, hang them, put all their school uniform away.

But it's also important that they learn to do that as well.