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REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

My intention is to help you do your job and have you help me do my job so that we can both do very well. and have a conversation like that right in front of your manager, and then see what happens. If it continues to happen, your manager is probably likely to do something about it.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

My intention is to help you do your job and have you help me do my job so that we can both do very well. and have a conversation like that right in front of your manager, and then see what happens. If it continues to happen, your manager is probably likely to do something about it.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

If he doesn't do something about it, then you're going to have to just come to terms with that you have to deal with that in the workplace, and that's reality. And the truth of the matter is, is like, you know, It's not like you can't give it to him back. It's not like you can't be fucking more of a smart ass than he is.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

If he doesn't do something about it, then you're going to have to just come to terms with that you have to deal with that in the workplace, and that's reality. And the truth of the matter is, is like, you know, It's not like you can't give it to him back. It's not like you can't be fucking more of a smart ass than he is.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

If he doesn't do something about it, then you're going to have to just come to terms with that you have to deal with that in the workplace, and that's reality. And the truth of the matter is, is like, you know, It's not like you can't give it to him back. It's not like you can't be fucking more of a smart ass than he is.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So sometimes when people won't play along and they won't be cool, you have to out uncool them and you have to get in the gutter. All right. And I don't like doing that, but sometimes it's necessary for people to earn respect. So. Those are sort of the options you have. I would definitely attempt to do it the ethical way, the right way, the nice way. But it sounds like you've been doing that.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So sometimes when people won't play along and they won't be cool, you have to out uncool them and you have to get in the gutter. All right. And I don't like doing that, but sometimes it's necessary for people to earn respect. So. Those are sort of the options you have. I would definitely attempt to do it the ethical way, the right way, the nice way. But it sounds like you've been doing that.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So sometimes when people won't play along and they won't be cool, you have to out uncool them and you have to get in the gutter. All right. And I don't like doing that, but sometimes it's necessary for people to earn respect. So. Those are sort of the options you have. I would definitely attempt to do it the ethical way, the right way, the nice way. But it sounds like you've been doing that.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

It's not happening. I would try once more the way that I described. And then after that, I would either ignore it. And just be a grown man and be like, this guy's a fucking clown. Almost like laugh at him for being such a douchebag. Because nothing really makes bullies stop more than people laughing at them for being a bully. So unless you're going to kick his ass, that'll definitely stop him.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

It's not happening. I would try once more the way that I described. And then after that, I would either ignore it. And just be a grown man and be like, this guy's a fucking clown. Almost like laugh at him for being such a douchebag. Because nothing really makes bullies stop more than people laughing at them for being a bully. So unless you're going to kick his ass, that'll definitely stop him.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

It's not happening. I would try once more the way that I described. And then after that, I would either ignore it. And just be a grown man and be like, this guy's a fucking clown. Almost like laugh at him for being such a douchebag. Because nothing really makes bullies stop more than people laughing at them for being a bully. So unless you're going to kick his ass, that'll definitely stop him.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

But, you know, that's probably not going to be good for your career. Bullies respond well to two things. Violence or... becoming the clown. And, you know, I think you can make him the clown. Other than that, dude, you know, it's, you know, it's tough it out, be thick-skinned, or find another place to go. You know what I'm saying?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

But, you know, that's probably not going to be good for your career. Bullies respond well to two things. Violence or... becoming the clown. And, you know, I think you can make him the clown. Other than that, dude, you know, it's, you know, it's tough it out, be thick-skinned, or find another place to go. You know what I'm saying?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

But, you know, that's probably not going to be good for your career. Bullies respond well to two things. Violence or... becoming the clown. And, you know, I think you can make him the clown. Other than that, dude, you know, it's, you know, it's tough it out, be thick-skinned, or find another place to go. You know what I'm saying?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Listen, just a couple things. One, just because you treat people with respect doesn't mean they'll treat you with respect. Okay? Number two...

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Listen, just a couple things. One, just because you treat people with respect doesn't mean they'll treat you with respect. Okay? Number two...

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Listen, just a couple things. One, just because you treat people with respect doesn't mean they'll treat you with respect. Okay? Number two...

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

have to respect yourself also and laying down and let a walk all over you is not self-respect so while i and i appreciate the fact that you were raised good you sound like a really good dude i've never met you before i i think that's how you should always behave but there are certain instances in your life where people are going to not respect the fact that you're respecting them

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

have to respect yourself also and laying down and let a walk all over you is not self-respect so while i and i appreciate the fact that you were raised good you sound like a really good dude i've never met you before i i think that's how you should always behave but there are certain instances in your life where people are going to not respect the fact that you're respecting them

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

have to respect yourself also and laying down and let a walk all over you is not self-respect so while i and i appreciate the fact that you were raised good you sound like a really good dude i've never met you before i i think that's how you should always behave but there are certain instances in your life where people are going to not respect the fact that you're respecting them