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REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

and they're going to disrespect you. And those situations cannot be ignored because that will diminish your self-worth, your self-respect, your self-esteem, and that is very harmful to you. So you've put enough thought into this already where it was important enough for you to call in the show. So that means it's bothering you. So the damage to your confidence and self-esteem is already happening.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

and they're going to disrespect you. And those situations cannot be ignored because that will diminish your self-worth, your self-respect, your self-esteem, and that is very harmful to you. So you've put enough thought into this already where it was important enough for you to call in the show. So that means it's bothering you. So the damage to your confidence and self-esteem is already happening.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

and they're going to disrespect you. And those situations cannot be ignored because that will diminish your self-worth, your self-respect, your self-esteem, and that is very harmful to you. So you've put enough thought into this already where it was important enough for you to call in the show. So that means it's bothering you. So the damage to your confidence and self-esteem is already happening.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So you have to figure out a way to end this. And there are certain times in your life where standing up for yourself is very uncomfortable. And this sounds like it's one of them for you, but I can promise you that once you do, and if you do it the right way and it works, you're going to feel really good about yourself.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So you have to figure out a way to end this. And there are certain times in your life where standing up for yourself is very uncomfortable. And this sounds like it's one of them for you, but I can promise you that once you do, and if you do it the right way and it works, you're going to feel really good about yourself.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

So you have to figure out a way to end this. And there are certain times in your life where standing up for yourself is very uncomfortable. And this sounds like it's one of them for you, but I can promise you that once you do, and if you do it the right way and it works, you're going to feel really good about yourself.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

I haven't had very few situations in my life that I haven't been able to resolve with that kind of a conversation. Like, hey, bro, listen. I'm on the same fucking team as you do. Like, I'm trying to do good. You're trying to do good. I'm trying to provide for my family. You're trying to provide for your family. You're good at what you do. I'm good at what I do.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

I haven't had very few situations in my life that I haven't been able to resolve with that kind of a conversation. Like, hey, bro, listen. I'm on the same fucking team as you do. Like, I'm trying to do good. You're trying to do good. I'm trying to provide for my family. You're trying to provide for your family. You're good at what you do. I'm good at what I do.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

I haven't had very few situations in my life that I haven't been able to resolve with that kind of a conversation. Like, hey, bro, listen. I'm on the same fucking team as you do. Like, I'm trying to do good. You're trying to do good. I'm trying to provide for my family. You're trying to provide for your family. You're good at what you do. I'm good at what I do.

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Can't we just work together and help each other be better? Like, wouldn't that make it a lot easier than coming in here every day with a negative attitude?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Can't we just work together and help each other be better? Like, wouldn't that make it a lot easier than coming in here every day with a negative attitude?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

Can't we just work together and help each other be better? Like, wouldn't that make it a lot easier than coming in here every day with a negative attitude?

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

like that's i've been able to handle almost every single person that's ever had a problem with me in that same way because dude once they take a step back and realize that you're not going to engage in their they they change their tune so and uh you know it's it's biblical bro like you know

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

like that's i've been able to handle almost every single person that's ever had a problem with me in that same way because dude once they take a step back and realize that you're not going to engage in their they they change their tune so and uh you know it's it's biblical bro like you know

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

like that's i've been able to handle almost every single person that's ever had a problem with me in that same way because dude once they take a step back and realize that you're not going to engage in their they they change their tune so and uh you know it's it's biblical bro like you know

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

jesus says it he says love your enemies and when you love your enemies man they usually end up becoming your friends and uh they ex you know some of these people have been treated so poorly in their lives that they just expect to battle every time someone steps on their toes a little bit or even gets close to them and and real talk dude i'm guilty of that you know i've been

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

jesus says it he says love your enemies and when you love your enemies man they usually end up becoming your friends and uh they ex you know some of these people have been treated so poorly in their lives that they just expect to battle every time someone steps on their toes a little bit or even gets close to them and and real talk dude i'm guilty of that you know i've been

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

jesus says it he says love your enemies and when you love your enemies man they usually end up becoming your friends and uh they ex you know some of these people have been treated so poorly in their lives that they just expect to battle every time someone steps on their toes a little bit or even gets close to them and and real talk dude i'm guilty of that you know i've been

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

been treated very poorly by a lot of people throughout my life and so sometimes when people get close to me or even in my i get very aggressive and defensive about it and i've had to learn how to not do that so i can relate to someone kind of like this guy a little bit so i think you'll be able to resolve it with that kind of conversation and if you can't

REAL AF with Andy Frisella
889. Q&AF: Loyal But Stuck, Ethical Dilemma & Dealing With Bitter Coworkers

been treated very poorly by a lot of people throughout my life and so sometimes when people get close to me or even in my i get very aggressive and defensive about it and i've had to learn how to not do that so i can relate to someone kind of like this guy a little bit so i think you'll be able to resolve it with that kind of conversation and if you can't