Douglas L. (Douglas Sale)

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The Anonymous Podcast · Just for Today - December 20th, 2025 with Barb R. - Overcoming self-obsession · 20 Dec 2025 podcast

So, and that's something to watch out for, right?

When we're having conversations with people and instead of being like fully present and asking follow-up questions, you know, like if you say, hey, I'm going to this place.

And if I, what I ought to do is I ought to say, oh, have you been there before?

Or I ought to, you know, I ought to hit you with that follow-up, lean into it.

And that's how a conversation, that's how you pan out a conversation, right?

the telltale sign of like when we're in this self-obsession, you're exactly right.

It's like, it's like, oh, can I come with her?

You know, what about, you know, is she inviting me?

Here, let me tell you when I was there.

You see what I'm talking about, Bart?

Like, you know, and so, yeah, we can be mindful of it.

You know, another one piece about the self-obsession that I was clean for a while before it was really broken down to me or that I really understood it kind of.

is like self-hate you know and like and like pitying myself and like feeling really bad about you know about myself like thinking myself as like as the lowest form and i battle that barb i fucking battle that you know that's a form of self-obsession yeah it's still it's still me it's still you know i i can't end this tape of like thinking about me

Or you see them having a little side conversation and you're like, them motherfuckers.

They're talking about me.

Yeah.

It is a sickness of me, me, me.

How can I bring it back on me?

And so the antidote, and actually, before we jump into the antidote to that, you've told me a few times about that in the analogy of the plot and not being in other people's plot.

And I was just talking to my one homie about that.

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