Dr. Aditi Nerurkar
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The word resilience is a positive connotation, but it feels very negative when you hear it. And the reason it feels negative now, you're like, oh, don't tell me to be resilient. It's because that definition has changed and morphed societally. We've moved away from true resilience towards toxic resilience. And so what is true resilience?
The word resilience is a positive connotation, but it feels very negative when you hear it. And the reason it feels negative now, you're like, oh, don't tell me to be resilient. It's because that definition has changed and morphed societally. We've moved away from true resilience towards toxic resilience. And so what is true resilience?
The word resilience is a positive connotation, but it feels very negative when you hear it. And the reason it feels negative now, you're like, oh, don't tell me to be resilient. It's because that definition has changed and morphed societally. We've moved away from true resilience towards toxic resilience. And so what is true resilience?
The word resilience is a positive connotation, but it feels very negative when you hear it. And the reason it feels negative now, you're like, oh, don't tell me to be resilient. It's because that definition has changed and morphed societally. We've moved away from true resilience towards toxic resilience. And so what is true resilience?
True resilience, it's like, like I said, it's your innate biology. We all have that ability to be resilient. It honors boundaries. It honors your human limitations for rest and recovery. And it really focuses on self-compassion and leaning into that versus toxic resilience. Toxic resilience is when you and I hear the word resilience, immediately you cringe. That's toxic resilience.
True resilience, it's like, like I said, it's your innate biology. We all have that ability to be resilient. It honors boundaries. It honors your human limitations for rest and recovery. And it really focuses on self-compassion and leaning into that versus toxic resilience. Toxic resilience is when you and I hear the word resilience, immediately you cringe. That's toxic resilience.
True resilience, it's like, like I said, it's your innate biology. We all have that ability to be resilient. It honors boundaries. It honors your human limitations for rest and recovery. And it really focuses on self-compassion and leaning into that versus toxic resilience. Toxic resilience is when you and I hear the word resilience, immediately you cringe. That's toxic resilience.
True resilience, it's like, like I said, it's your innate biology. We all have that ability to be resilient. It honors boundaries. It honors your human limitations for rest and recovery. And it really focuses on self-compassion and leaning into that versus toxic resilience. Toxic resilience is when you and I hear the word resilience, immediately you cringe. That's toxic resilience.
True resilience, it's like, like I said, it's your innate biology. We all have that ability to be resilient. It honors boundaries. It honors your human limitations for rest and recovery. And it really focuses on self-compassion and leaning into that versus toxic resilience. Toxic resilience is when you and I hear the word resilience, immediately you cringe. That's toxic resilience.
It's a mind over matter mindset. It's productivity at all costs. It's like all systems go all the time. It's the energizer bunny here in the US, you know, just keep going. In the UK, keep calm and carry on. Every single society has some concept of toxic resilience because it's a manifestation of hustle culture.
It's a mind over matter mindset. It's productivity at all costs. It's like all systems go all the time. It's the energizer bunny here in the US, you know, just keep going. In the UK, keep calm and carry on. Every single society has some concept of toxic resilience because it's a manifestation of hustle culture.
It's a mind over matter mindset. It's productivity at all costs. It's like all systems go all the time. It's the energizer bunny here in the US, you know, just keep going. In the UK, keep calm and carry on. Every single society has some concept of toxic resilience because it's a manifestation of hustle culture.
It's a mind over matter mindset. It's productivity at all costs. It's like all systems go all the time. It's the energizer bunny here in the US, you know, just keep going. In the UK, keep calm and carry on. Every single society has some concept of toxic resilience because it's a manifestation of hustle culture.
It's a mind over matter mindset. It's productivity at all costs. It's like all systems go all the time. It's the energizer bunny here in the US, you know, just keep going. In the UK, keep calm and carry on. Every single society has some concept of toxic resilience because it's a manifestation of hustle culture.
And so I hope that the entrepreneurs listening, what they take away from our conversation is that you can be resilient and you can still get burnt out. That's called the resilience myth that, people think, oh, I can't be burned out. I'm so resilient.
And so I hope that the entrepreneurs listening, what they take away from our conversation is that you can be resilient and you can still get burnt out. That's called the resilience myth that, people think, oh, I can't be burned out. I'm so resilient.
And so I hope that the entrepreneurs listening, what they take away from our conversation is that you can be resilient and you can still get burnt out. That's called the resilience myth that, people think, oh, I can't be burned out. I'm so resilient.
And so I hope that the entrepreneurs listening, what they take away from our conversation is that you can be resilient and you can still get burnt out. That's called the resilience myth that, people think, oh, I can't be burned out. I'm so resilient.
And so I hope that the entrepreneurs listening, what they take away from our conversation is that you can be resilient and you can still get burnt out. That's called the resilience myth that, people think, oh, I can't be burned out. I'm so resilient.
Those two things, because what you're likely living through is this idea of toxic resilience, because we've been taught from a really young age that resilience is about tolerating a lot of discomfort, but that's not actually true resilience.