Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

I'm an alpha.

I'm a sigma.

Right?

That's, like, that's the journey.

And so...

But there is something where like if you are going to multiple colleges, interacting with multiple people, multiple jobs, and you routinely get shat upon, to say that you have no influence in this is one of the most dangerous mistakes you can make.

Because the moment that you say there's nothing I can do about this, this is not my fault, right?

is the moment that if you have some power you can exercise, you give up your power in that moment.

And this is where I think we have a big problem in the English language.

Because if we say this is your fault, the connotations of the word fault imply like a moral deficit or a choice or something like that.

Right.

So this is where the way I would describe it is there is a karma that you are sowing.

There are some behaviors that you're engaging in, some actions that you're taking that are getting a unusual response.

You are tapping into something that evokes something in someone else.

And whether that is right, wrong, fair, or just, don't ask me.

That is not my place.

If you guys want to say it's unjust, unfair, whatever, you can do that.

I'm not a judge.

I'm not divine.

I don't know what is just or unjust.