Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanojia
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Now it's not just the event.
Something bad happened and then that thing will end, right?
Oh, we had a bad quarter, so no one gets raises.
I don't have to take it personally.
But the moment that I take it personally, how does that create drama?
Because then when the event ends, I'm not done with it.
And I certainly ain't done with you.
Drama is human beings carrying forward conflicts into new interactions.
You can't have drama unless someone is going to bring yesterday into today.
So when relationships fall apart, why do they fall apart?
Because the people in them create drama with each other.
You did this to me yesterday.
I'm going to carry it forward into today.
Now we have, you forgot to pick me up at the airport.