Dr. Alok Kanojia

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14,421 appearances 24 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 4d ago

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HealthyGamerGG · What Breakups ACTUALLY Do To Men · 14 Sep 2026 podcast

So who can you now become? voice-verified

You used to think of yourself. voice-verified

So I've seen this a lot, especially with like women who will start a relationship really young, will tend to have kids, become a stay at home mom. voice-verified

So this is a really classic example. voice-verified

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And then at the age of 35, they get divorced and they've been dating this person since the age of 17. voice-verified

And so they define themselves as a stay at home mom, as a good mother, as a good wife. voice-verified

So what is their road? voice-verified

It is a broadening of their sense of self-concept. voice-verified

So the key thing is what more can you be right? voice-verified

And don't think about what you are or what you were, but like who else can you possibly become? voice-verified

And the last thing is we focused on equifinality of concept, but there are a lot of options in there. voice-verified

And this is where who you are actually heavily influences what will work for you. voice-verified

Here's a paper, for example, that shows that there's a personality type that is capable of remaining friends after a breakup, right? voice-verified

So should you stay friends? voice-verified

Should you not stay friends? voice-verified

You'll get generic yeses and nos for all kinds of reasons on the internet, but it actually depends on the person. voice-verified

The more open you are and the more agreeable you are, the easier it is or the better it is for you to stay friends. voice-verified

So this is where when it comes to relationship stuff, we have these resources like there's this great deep dive into attachment styles and relationships where if you understand what your personality is, our members have told us this is one of the best deep dives we've done. voice-verified

And it really gives them insight into their own making so that they can navigate relationships better. voice-verified

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