Dr. Alok Kanojia
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first heard Jun 2026
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And so you may think like low self-esteem, what's the antidote?
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The antidote is actually industry.
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It's getting them to do stuff and doing something, anything, will affect their esteem.
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So when we as children, when we do things and even
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Even if we're successful, if we're compared, comparison is like the number one thing that leads to problems with industry and inferiority, right?
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So this is like all these gifted kids who are burnt out, people make comparisons.
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We see this with like black sheep and golden child, right?
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You got an A, why you got a B, your brother, your sister got an A.
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Like there's a smart one, there's a stupid one, you're constantly made comparisons.
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You're not judged by your industry.
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And then this too.
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Creates all kinds of problems in adulthood.
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So this leads to a couple of problems.
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Okay.
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So in adulthood, when we do this, we are left with persistent feelings of inadequacy.
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That's number one.
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Next thing we do is sidestep challenges that can result in failure, right?
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Because we don't, it's not about industry, it's about being number one.
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And if we can't be number one, we're not even gonna try.
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The most crippling is an idea.
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