Dr. Alok Kanojia
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14,159 appearances
23 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 4d ago
Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And when I work with someone who has an addictive personality, we really have to focus on the fundamentals of your internal decision making.
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And this is where I'm going to boil things down to one really interesting scientific concept, which is something called negative urgency and positive urgency.
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So negative urgency is the tendency to act rashly in response to a negative emotional experience.
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That's what negative affect means.
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Positive urgency is the tendency to act rashly in relation to a positive affect or emotional experience.
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So when I get excited, I order a bunch of things on the internet because now this is my
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And when I feel afraid of something or I want to avoid something or I feel anxious, I will act rashly.
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I will act rapidly in response to that thing.
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And if there's one skill that I would choose to teach, if I took all of the patients I've had who had addictive personality and I had to teach them one thing, I would teach them this concept and teach them how to free themselves from positive and negative urgency.
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And if you've got an addictive personality, I want you to think about this for a second.
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The core of the problem is that, you know, you get excited about something and then you can't restrain yourself, right?
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That's the core of the problem.
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The other thing within addictive personality is that oftentimes when we get excited about something, we are running away from something else.
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So these two things go hand in hand.
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And so how are we going to get to the root of this?
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And this is where we're going to turn to the teachings of the Buddha.
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And this is kind of fascinating because I realized something recently.
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