Dr. Alok Kanojia
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15,637 appearances
27 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
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We think to ourselves, if I have low self-esteem, the goal is to feel better about myself.
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Actually, Erickson has something different.
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The antidote to inferiority is industry, not superiority, right?
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And we have some really interesting data behind that because we know that people who feel superior, I'm narcissistic, I'm
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arrogant actually have an inferiority on the inside, right?
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And this is something that we we grapple with all the time in coaching because people are coming in and they have no motivation.
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They make comparisons.
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And so you may think like low self-esteem, what's the antidote?
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The antidote is actually industry.
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It's getting them to do stuff and doing something, anything, will affect their esteem.
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So when we as children, when we do things and even
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Even if we're successful, if we're compared, comparison is like the number one thing that leads to problems with industry and inferiority, right?
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So this is like all these gifted kids who are burnt out, people make comparisons.
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We see this with like black sheep and golden child, right?
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You got an A, why you got a B, your brother, your sister got an A.
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Like there's a smart one, there's a stupid one, you're constantly made comparisons.
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You're not judged by your industry.
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And then this too.
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Creates all kinds of problems in adulthood.
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So this leads to a couple of problems.
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