Dr. Alok Kanojia

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15,637 appearances 27 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 2d ago

Dr. Alok Kanojia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 27 in all, peaking in Aug 2026 with 10.

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So if you were never loved as a child, you have to accept that you were not loved as a child. voice-verified
That's really healthy, but that's not where it ends. voice-verified
The real way to fix that is to be loved as an adult, to be loved. voice-verified
Loved in the way that a child was loved as an adult, to be spoiled, to be indulgent. voice-verified
And I think there are a couple of really good examples of this through Eric Erickson, which I think make a lot of sense. voice-verified
Here is the progress bar of childhood. voice-verified
When we're somewhere around three to six years old, we have this basic task of initiative versus guilt. voice-verified
So what does this mean? voice-verified
So when a child is like two, they don't have choices, they can't demonstrate. voice-verified
Initiative that they don't like get to decide what we're doing today. voice-verified
They don't get to control or steer their life at all. voice-verified
But once we get to be about three, four, five, and six, that's when we can demonstrate initiative. voice-verified
Hey, today I want to go to the zoo. voice-verified
Or if we go to the zoo, I want to see the anacondas, not the tigers. voice-verified
And a five-year-old can demonstrate, like they can try to steer the car of their life in small ways. voice-verified
And the voice-verified
Way that people respond to that is really important. voice-verified
Okay. voice-verified
So when I want to do something, I want to see tigers, or let's say I want to see snakes, which means that I have an initiative. voice-verified
And let's say that my parents have a phobia of snakes. voice-verified
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