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Dr. Alok Kanojia

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The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

That's just one example. The second thing is that kids are really good at judging IQ. Like, it's amazing. So we're really good at recognizing, like, stupid people and smart people. Okay. So this is paradoxically really damaging for an ADHD kid because an ADHD kid knows that they're not stupid. Like, I know that I'm just about as smart as all of my friends. But I cannot achieve what they achieve.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

That's just one example. The second thing is that kids are really good at judging IQ. Like, it's amazing. So we're really good at recognizing, like, stupid people and smart people. Okay. So this is paradoxically really damaging for an ADHD kid because an ADHD kid knows that they're not stupid. Like, I know that I'm just about as smart as all of my friends. But I cannot achieve what they achieve.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So there's an achievement gap. So even though I'm just as smart and I learn things just as quickly, my grades are way worse. So if you know your IQ is the same, your performance is way worse. How does a child make sense of that? The child says, OK, I'm busted in some way. There's something wrong with me. And they have evidence of this. Right. Because other kids are able to make friends.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So there's an achievement gap. So even though I'm just as smart and I learn things just as quickly, my grades are way worse. So if you know your IQ is the same, your performance is way worse. How does a child make sense of that? The child says, OK, I'm busted in some way. There's something wrong with me. And they have evidence of this. Right. Because other kids are able to make friends.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So there's an achievement gap. So even though I'm just as smart and I learn things just as quickly, my grades are way worse. So if you know your IQ is the same, your performance is way worse. How does a child make sense of that? The child says, OK, I'm busted in some way. There's something wrong with me. And they have evidence of this. Right. Because other kids are able to make friends.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

But I just know that everyone went to a birthday party and I wasn't invited. Right. So they grow up with this idea that there's something wrong with me. And they're right. It's that people don't understand that this is a neurodiverse individual.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

But I just know that everyone went to a birthday party and I wasn't invited. Right. So they grow up with this idea that there's something wrong with me. And they're right. It's that people don't understand that this is a neurodiverse individual.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

But I just know that everyone went to a birthday party and I wasn't invited. Right. So they grow up with this idea that there's something wrong with me. And they're right. It's that people don't understand that this is a neurodiverse individual.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So that core of something is wrong with me, coupled with the lack of academic performance, coupled with the lack of social performance, when all that stuff piles on, they wind up depressed later in life.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So that core of something is wrong with me, coupled with the lack of academic performance, coupled with the lack of social performance, when all that stuff piles on, they wind up depressed later in life.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

So that core of something is wrong with me, coupled with the lack of academic performance, coupled with the lack of social performance, when all that stuff piles on, they wind up depressed later in life.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

Yeah. So let me ask you, Jordan, when you were 33 and you had like 40 percent body fat or whatever, what was your mental state like?

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

Yeah. So let me ask you, Jordan, when you were 33 and you had like 40 percent body fat or whatever, what was your mental state like?

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

Yeah. So let me ask you, Jordan, when you were 33 and you had like 40 percent body fat or whatever, what was your mental state like?

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

I think there's a couple of other like interesting connections there. One is that people with ADHD do way better in entrepreneurship.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

I think there's a couple of other like interesting connections there. One is that people with ADHD do way better in entrepreneurship.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

I think there's a couple of other like interesting connections there. One is that people with ADHD do way better in entrepreneurship.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

There's a lot of different reasons for that. So one is that So people with ADHD are very good reactively. The problem is that you need a stimulus from the outside to act, right? This example that you get this text message an hour, text message 30 minutes, text message five minutes away. Getting three text messages over the course for an hour for a neurotypical person will drive them insane. Yeah.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

There's a lot of different reasons for that. So one is that So people with ADHD are very good reactively. The problem is that you need a stimulus from the outside to act, right? This example that you get this text message an hour, text message 30 minutes, text message five minutes away. Getting three text messages over the course for an hour for a neurotypical person will drive them insane. Yeah.

The Jordan Harbinger Show
1114: Dr. Alok Kanojia | Breaking the Cycle of Digital Dependence

There's a lot of different reasons for that. So one is that So people with ADHD are very good reactively. The problem is that you need a stimulus from the outside to act, right? This example that you get this text message an hour, text message 30 minutes, text message five minutes away. Getting three text messages over the course for an hour for a neurotypical person will drive them insane. Yeah.