Dr. Alok Kanojia

And all that stuff hurts, right?

And the real tragedy here, I've worked with so many people who are incredibly successful, is sometimes when we get that hurt, we adapt.

We become ambitious.

We say, I'm gonna be that thing.

And it leads us to success, but we pay the price of happiness.

And the real tragedy is that some people believe that you get one or the other.

You can be ambitious or you can be happy.

But I think you are a great living, breathing, walking example of when you tap into what really drives you.

then you can be successful.

I don't know if you're happy.

Yeah.

So so I want to point out, I think this is it's such a masculine thing.

So so if I can.

So, you know, men are really interesting.

So we're trained to not manage our internal environment internally.

So I had a patient who was I saw in a jail.

He was 19.

And he'd been in jail like three or four times.

And so I was talking to him about how he wound up here because he's like 19.

And so he was telling me that when he was 12, his dad passed away.