Dr. Alok Kanojia

I was trying to make a joke that didn't work out so well, but hey, the science is important.

I was trying to make a joke that didn't work out so well, but hey, the science is important.

I was trying to make a joke that didn't work out so well, but hey, the science is important.

I would love to see the age curve because it's like college, 10 to 15 minutes. I mean, warm up maybe. And then it's like fast forward to 44 and you're like... five to seven minutes. Is it more like five or is it more like seven? That's the average, right? So there's a lot of people under that bar. And like, I don't even want to ask what it's going to be like when I'm 60. It's going to be like sex.

I would love to see the age curve because it's like college, 10 to 15 minutes. I mean, warm up maybe. And then it's like fast forward to 44 and you're like... five to seven minutes. Is it more like five or is it more like seven? That's the average, right? So there's a lot of people under that bar. And like, I don't even want to ask what it's going to be like when I'm 60. It's going to be like sex.

I would love to see the age curve because it's like college, 10 to 15 minutes. I mean, warm up maybe. And then it's like fast forward to 44 and you're like... five to seven minutes. Is it more like five or is it more like seven? That's the average, right? So there's a lot of people under that bar. And like, I don't even want to ask what it's going to be like when I'm 60. It's going to be like sex.

I've heard of that.

I've heard of that.

I've heard of that.

Yeah, that actually, that absolutely makes some sense. That definitely could be the issue. I want to be conscious of time here. I want to talk about emotion, especially emotion among men, because we really don't allow men to have that many emotions in society. I'm tempted to say we don't allow men to suffer, but is that something I've heard from you? Because I feel like that's...

Yeah, that actually, that absolutely makes some sense. That definitely could be the issue. I want to be conscious of time here. I want to talk about emotion, especially emotion among men, because we really don't allow men to have that many emotions in society. I'm tempted to say we don't allow men to suffer, but is that something I've heard from you? Because I feel like that's...

Yeah, that actually, that absolutely makes some sense. That definitely could be the issue. I want to be conscious of time here. I want to talk about emotion, especially emotion among men, because we really don't allow men to have that many emotions in society. I'm tempted to say we don't allow men to suffer, but is that something I've heard from you? Because I feel like that's...

Yeah, I was going to say anger is one of the most common emotions that like my dad basically has two emotions, happy and angry. It's like he gets frustrated or sad. It just turns into anger like he doesn't even have the other channels. Right. They're just all blended into the anger channel.

Yeah, I was going to say anger is one of the most common emotions that like my dad basically has two emotions, happy and angry. It's like he gets frustrated or sad. It just turns into anger like he doesn't even have the other channels. Right. They're just all blended into the anger channel.

Yeah, I was going to say anger is one of the most common emotions that like my dad basically has two emotions, happy and angry. It's like he gets frustrated or sad. It just turns into anger like he doesn't even have the other channels. Right. They're just all blended into the anger channel.

You must see some pretty heartbreaking things as a therapist. Applying to 300 jobs and getting one interview is bad, but I can imagine that's just like the tip of the iceberg. Do you talk with a lot of incel type guys or like the toxically masculine guys who front all the time? Yeah, absolutely.

You must see some pretty heartbreaking things as a therapist. Applying to 300 jobs and getting one interview is bad, but I can imagine that's just like the tip of the iceberg. Do you talk with a lot of incel type guys or like the toxically masculine guys who front all the time? Yeah, absolutely.

You must see some pretty heartbreaking things as a therapist. Applying to 300 jobs and getting one interview is bad, but I can imagine that's just like the tip of the iceberg. Do you talk with a lot of incel type guys or like the toxically masculine guys who front all the time? Yeah, absolutely.

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