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Dr. Alok Kanuja (Dr. K)

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HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Right.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So this is when people daydream so much that they have difficulty functioning in life.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Right.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Sound familiar.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So we know that maladaptive daydreaming may be some feature is somewhat related to ADHD.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So your brain or your mind is not brain.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Mind is not capable of daydreaming.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

restraining your attention away from the daydream and focusing on what you should be focusing on.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

You get caught up in the daydreaming.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So there's the attentional component, right?

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

And then you get lost in the daydream for a while.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

The other reason that ADHD may be related to maladaptive daydreaming is that we know that maladaptive daydreaming is an emotional coping mechanism.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So when I am, and I'm sure y'all have experienced something like this.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So in my case, I used to be bullied a lot in school.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

And so I'd have fantasies about standing up to my bully and then being able to fight them back and becoming a martial artist and this kind of stuff.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

So we know that there is a normal human mechanism where when you have an emotional injury, your brain can fantasize, give you fantasies of triumph or whatever you're missing to make you feel better, right?

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Because then you feel good.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

Oh yeah, it's going to be good.

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

You get that justice boner where you're like,

HealthyGamerGG
Limerance & Why You Can't Get Them Out Of Your Head

yeah, like I'm going to win.