Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 289: Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart on Breaking Harmful Generational Cycles · 12 Apr 2022 podcast

I don't think, you know, I could ever work myself out of a job, which is what I'm trying to do.

Educate enough people so that I don't I'm not needed in that way.

So for all of us, everybody that I've ever met.

We have a set of beliefs and core values, behaviors, ideas about what it means to be an individual, what it means to be part of society, what it means, maybe it's part of your ethnic identity, your cultural identity, your family identity, your career, whatever it is, that we all have a set of values and identities that come from where we were raised.

And whether we had overly strict parents or an abusive background or um parents who were very permissive, whatever it was.

those start to shape how we view others, ourselves and society.

And then we repeat them.

And what I found is so often when I'm doing parent coaching and I'm meeting it's typically couples.

And they'll say, Oh yeah, my mom or my dad or my grandpa was like this and I vowed to never be like that.

And then I turned out to be just like them.

Or they worked so hard not to be like them that they went completely the pendulum swung the complete opposite way and yet they got the same result.

So they're like, what the heck is up with that?

Or it's interestingly, a lot of times couples will then connect with somebody else who's their balance.

So they're overly um emotional, maybe overly very, very much in tune with their kids to a fault, in their opinion.

But then they have a spouse or partner who's very stoic and standoffish and no nonsense.

And then they clash and they think, Oh, there's something wrong here.

But I'm like, well, that's what happens in families.

It's that concept of homeostasis that we try to maintain balance.

And if they were both emotional or they're both stoic, that would be a problem.

And so we often tend to

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