Dr. Becky Bailey
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451 appearances
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first heard Feb 2020
last heard Feb 2020
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So if you'll notice the voice in your head or my head or anybody listening, you'll hear, you know, in there is your mother, your father, your grandmother, your aunt, a teacher.
But the voice in there is when they're upset.
You're recording how they handled when the world didn't go their way.
And if you listen, you'll hear those.
There's a flavor of, although that's part of dad, that's part of, you know, when the world didn't go their way.
Because someone might have done the silent treatment.
The world didn't go their way, so they didn't speak to anybody for a day.
Others are screamers and yellows.
Others are blamers.
Others blame themselves and are victims to the world in general.
Those voices are in our head.
And that's our self-regulatory system.
So the ultimate goal of conscious discipline is not only to change our, and not just that one skill.
We have seven skills.
It's a little bit complex.
I'm giving you the basics here.
But we've got to change our self-regulatory system.
So how we respond, I'm going to go back to that, how we respond to a child's distress not only calms them at the moment, but gives them the tone of voice, the intention, the words that are going to be in their head ultimately for the rest of their lives, either lighting the fire or calming it down.
It's so powerful.
So this is an evolutionary step.
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