Dr. Becky Bailey

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 195: The Conscious Discipline Methodology, with Dr. Becky Bailey · 10 Feb 2020 podcast

So I think there's instead of trying to go, whether that was intentional or not, I think we have two intentional states.

One, we're offering our love and help to the universe or to our society, our family.

We're contributors.

And at whatever age you are, I mean, you know, a two year old can only contribute a little bit, you know what I mean?

But whatever age makes a difference or we're calling for help or calling for love.

So all behavior in my perception is some form of communication, you know, and we see this and we do so well with babies, you know, when they go, you know, they're communicating non-verbally, you wanted the toy, you wanted some food, go,

But then when they get older and I throw the table because of their upset and rage and anger at so many factors, we don't say you wanted some help.

Right.

You know, what they do is it's just another way of saying I am completely overwhelmed at this moment.

Could anybody see past this behavior?

Could you see that overwhelmingness inside me?

I mean, you know, I've got my nervous system is jacked up.

You know, all the sensations in my body are off the deep end.

Please hear my call as opposed to judge my being.

And I think that as long as we can reach, I'd love to reach all parents, but I certainly love to reach all teachers because sometimes some parents are in their own overwhelmed state giving what they're doing on a daily basis.

depending on the children in their life or the fact that they can't pay the light bill.

But a common denominator, and this is why I went for educators first, the common denominator is educators are working with somebody else's kid.

So we're not as triggered by some of the stuff they're doing.

And

Hopefully in that day, we know that we hopefully have food on the table for ourselves.

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