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Dr. Caroline Fleck

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916 total appearances

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The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah. Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah. Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah. Right? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Right, right, right, right. Oh, that's a very good, that's a very good point.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Right, right, right, right. Oh, that's a very good, that's a very good point.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Right, right, right, right. Oh, that's a very good, that's a very good point.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And it's just not how we think about food, especially in our like excess culture of like superset and double this and double that, right? But like, let's think about what we're eating here just for like a hot second. Like, is there a better way to do this? Yeah. But it requires you to acknowledge that you are doing some degree of harm.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And it's just not how we think about food, especially in our like excess culture of like superset and double this and double that, right? But like, let's think about what we're eating here just for like a hot second. Like, is there a better way to do this? Yeah. But it requires you to acknowledge that you are doing some degree of harm.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And it's just not how we think about food, especially in our like excess culture of like superset and double this and double that, right? But like, let's think about what we're eating here just for like a hot second. Like, is there a better way to do this? Yeah. But it requires you to acknowledge that you are doing some degree of harm.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And that's what I was saying where I really actually value being mindful of when what you're saying and what you're doing don't align. You can't just be like, I love animals, and I'm not going to look at that right now while I'm ordering over here. It's like, hold the two simultaneously. That's OK. You don't have to be perfect.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And that's what I was saying where I really actually value being mindful of when what you're saying and what you're doing don't align. You can't just be like, I love animals, and I'm not going to look at that right now while I'm ordering over here. It's like, hold the two simultaneously. That's OK. You don't have to be perfect.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

And that's what I was saying where I really actually value being mindful of when what you're saying and what you're doing don't align. You can't just be like, I love animals, and I'm not going to look at that right now while I'm ordering over here. It's like, hold the two simultaneously. That's OK. You don't have to be perfect.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Like you said, I aspire to have a totally plant-based diet, but I'm not there. And yet with every one of those decisions, I am thinking, do I really need cheese on this? If I were in your shoes, like, could I, you know, a cow versus a chicken? Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Like you said, I aspire to have a totally plant-based diet, but I'm not there. And yet with every one of those decisions, I am thinking, do I really need cheese on this? If I were in your shoes, like, could I, you know, a cow versus a chicken? Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Like you said, I aspire to have a totally plant-based diet, but I'm not there. And yet with every one of those decisions, I am thinking, do I really need cheese on this? If I were in your shoes, like, could I, you know, a cow versus a chicken? Yeah.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah. And it is it's just about like not being so black or white, like, oh, well, I eat meat. So I eat meat. This is what I do. Like you can there can be all sorts of like, compassionate decisions within that that are more aligned with your values, even though you're making a decision that as a whole, maybe feels, you know, not completely in line.

The Genius Life
487: Why Feeling "Seen and Heard" Can Save Your Relationship and Your Sanity | Caroline Fleck, PhD

Yeah. And it is it's just about like not being so black or white, like, oh, well, I eat meat. So I eat meat. This is what I do. Like you can there can be all sorts of like, compassionate decisions within that that are more aligned with your values, even though you're making a decision that as a whole, maybe feels, you know, not completely in line.