Dr. Colman Noctor
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Those are the dynamics of relationships that are ongoing.
Yeah, I mean, we all have a responsibility to own our own stuff and try and do something about it.
You know what I mean?
Just because you get the
These aren't passes.
They're not saying, oh, you can get away with murder because you have an anxious attachment.
It's about saying you need to work on that even more.
So the title of the label or the style that you assign to yourself, that's where you start doing the work.
It's not you saying...
Right.
This is me.
Deal with it.
But the issue is we could have all different relations, like some relationships will trigger different attachments.
So if I'm in one relationship that might bring up the anxiously attached Coleman.
And so I might be very clingy.
Why would that happen?
Just the dynamics of who that other person is.
Do you know what I mean?
So if somebody like...
Essentially, in relationships, you've got two broken people coming together.