Dr. Dacher Keltner
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first heard Apr 2026
last heard 6 Apr
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And what we found is the more that they got embarrassed, the better they liked each other because it's turning to this motor pattern of like –
wow, I'm showing you that I care about what you're accusing me of and I'll get embarrassed.
You see that in me, we become closer.
The guys who are better teasers and that were more playful and funny and...
Made people aware of the norms that matter to the group, but not really humiliate people.
Those guys are more popular in the group.
And that's been replicated, right?
Just storytelling and ribbing each other.
And it was part of healthy group functioning is just embarrassing each other.
You think about roasts, you know, it's the end of your career.
You're going to get that someone's going to talk about your career.
You're going to get hammered.
And it's wonderful.
I fear that day.
Yeah, yeah.
And that's part of this phenomenon of like we make fun of the people we love the most.
Siblings are big families.
A lot of siblings tease each other like mad, you know, and they joke and they josh and they wrestle and they give each other noogies and they have nicknames for each other.
Again, to like make sure everybody's aware of what matters and how not to –
Violate those rules.
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