Dr. Dan Peters
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664 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2018
last heard Mar 2020
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That can range from, oh, I had the best childhood and I just want to provide my kids the same thing.
to you know, there are things I liked and there are some things I didn't like.
So I want to do the good things and not do the other things.
Or the okay, I had an awful childhood.
I am so angry at what happened to me or just I don't even want to go back there and I'm gonna do the opposite.
But what happens is most of us just do that, whichever version of what I just said, without really
Consciously exploring what is driving our behaviour.
And the other thing that we do often is we come up with different reasons
than maybe the real reasons for why we do something.
You know, for example, um, everything has to be really neat because I grew up in a chaotic household, so everything is gonna be neat and orderly.
But maybe it's because I'm also anxious and I get anxious when I don't have everything in order.
So therefore I need to impose that on my kids for me.
But I'm saying it's actually for them.
Just as an example.
So so looking at
Where did we come from?
Which again is not easy to do for many people and
It's it's how can we
Go within and
And and even when it's hard to go within, the number one reason we do difficult things and look at ourselves in a hard way is because the love we have for our kids and what we want for our kids.
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