Dr. Dan Peters
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664 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2018
last heard Mar 2020
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What are their strengths?
What are their interests?
What are their challenges?
And here, this is key.
what level are they invested in their own life versus just kind of being told what to do or just blowing in the wind because they don't feel they have any power or control?
You know, and I feel it's this interaction between who am I?
What do I care about as a parent?
What do I want for my kid?
What am I telling them either verbally or non-verbally?
What am I modeling for them and how I'm living my life?
I'm sure we can unpack that one.
And then
where are they and what do we need to do to support them?
So for example, this is with the timing thing.
So if we have a child who's in ninth grade and has really low executive functioning, first question, does your child know they have executive functioning challenges?
Does your child care that they have executive functioning challenges?
And how can we support them in terms of getting them on board to A, care, and B, be invested in improving them for their life
And for something they care about, because if it's not linked to something that they're intrinsically motivated for, it's not going to stick and there's going to be more conflict.
And often when we have conflict in the home, it just gets in the way, not only, of course, of our relationship, but it gets in the way of how we're helping our child grow in a healthy way instead of a resistance sort of way.
And then, of course, there's scaffolding, but I could keep going on.
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